Most victims are frightened of reporting the crime and the possible future legal proceedings. The feelings of guilt and shame that sexual violence brings can be a source of fear, and the reaction of the authorities is tense. Victims should be able to talk about their experience immediately after the incident, preferably before police questioning or at least before the case goes to court.

Don’t be left alone with your case; be brave enough to seek help. For example, contact Tukinainen’s toll-free hotline or online (www.nettitukinainen.fi). You can contact us anonymously, and your contact details are confidential. After you have heard the options, it is up to you to decide whether to report the crime and other related matters.

• do not wash, do not change your clothes
• go to a doctor, even if there are no visible injuries
• tell the doctor what has happened
• contact the police

A sexual offence against a child must always be reported to the police.

Advice for people close to the victim.